Tuesday, October 18, 2016


"Cheating isn't always kissing, touching, or flirting. 
If you have to delete text messages so your partner
doesn't see them, you're already there."

The truth is every man is tempted to cheat, the goal is to find someone who is strong and smart enough to resist such a temptation. Asking M how he resists from being curious about other women after years of dating his current girlfriend, he replies, you just need to change your life up so you don't get bored, you need to know that often the problem is not with the girl but with the surroundings.

This is what I call a smart man. The goal is not to find an unattractive man, a stupid man or an extremely kind man because even unattractive, stupid, kind men cheat. Find a man with a strong moral compass with an even stronger will to fight temptation. Someone who fights for you everyday. Otherwise, be ready to have to deal with cheating. Because to be with someone for more than 60 years, a man is bound to be curious about the other women around him, those younger than you, funnier than you or simply more mysterious than you.

Tuesday, October 4, 2016


"Everyone deserves the truth, and needs to hear it... whether they can
 handle the truth depends on their ability to know themselves... if they
 can't handle the reality of reality, then they will likely only disappoint
 a significant other in a truly deep emotional relationship. 
(You don't want to be that significant other).
 - Tomas

Maybe being a very reflective person, on myself and the people and environment around me, has helped me better to face the truth that people bestow upon me. Want to know some truth? I was told by my first boyfriend that his parents didn't like me after meeting them for the first time over a short exchange of conversation. And I was so hurt by the truth. Some would wonder why on earth would he let me know something so horrible like that without any suggestions to help the situation, and to tell me that the thing his parents didn't like was in both my looks and personality... But here's the second half of the truth: I didn't blame him. In my crazy, weird way, I respected his honesty. He had no malicious intent to hurt me, sure it probably wasn't the smartest thing to do to let me know something like this but I see that it comes from a place of honesty. I admire bluntness so far as it is not malicious.

Tuesday, September 20, 2016


“Red is such an interesting color to correlate with emotion, 
because it’s on both ends of the spectrum. On one end you have
 happiness, falling in love, infatuation with someone, passion, 
all that. On the other end, you’ve got obsession, jealousy, 
danger, fear, anger and frustration.”
- Taylor Swift

In this world there are three types of people: (1) those who date for fun, (2) those who don't waste time dating unless they see some future value in them, and (3) those who don't date but only have sexual encounters.

If you are the small proportion of the population who is like me, who fall under the second category, the world is a jungle. The third category of people are easy to avoid, their intentions loud and clear, and for that I have much respect. They know their time is valuable and they know what they want, that is something the second and third categories share in common. It is the first category of people that you are prey to.

Tuesday, September 6, 2016


"If you don't build your dreams, 
someone will hire you to help build theirs."
-Tony Gaskin

I go by the idea that crazy is better than normal. Wild is better than boring. Insanity is what creates greatness. People call Kanye crazy but if he wasn't crazy do you think he would be so successful? Everything seems wild and absurd until someone does it. I mean who decided it was a good idea to create a box that makes sounds and shines out light? Impossible things are only impossible until someone is crazy enough to bring it on themselves to make it possible.

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